Power threats are threats to your value and your esteem. 90% of the time you are not managing physical threats, but threats to your power and your esteem and your value and that is what manages your boundary system. That is what your boundary system is engineered consciously or unconsciously to do, to manage power threats. Does that insight not change the game?! In other words: what is under … Read more about What are Power Threats?
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Inner Child Reflection Questions
What would you say your childhood was like? What experiences did you have? Did you have a lot of experiences of abuse or abandonment or rejection? Where you shamed a lot? Where you nurtured and loved and taken care of? Where you allowed to express yourself fully and to follow your heart? Would you see there was predominantly abandonment, predominantly love, or a … Read more about Inner Child Reflection Questions
The Dreamer, the Ancestor and the Unborn
Everything is born out of the dream time. Every vision, every thought we have, every action we take, all that is manifest in this world, is born out of the ‘Ocean of Being’ – out of the dream time. Traditional people from different cultures say that we as Westerners are ‘dreaming the wrong dream’ – a dream that is not sustainable in the way we treat the earth and all our fellow inhabitants of this … Read more about The Dreamer, the Ancestor and the Unborn
Shamanic Practitioner Training
Congratulations to the Clan of the Sisters of the Golden Web, which is the latest cohort to have completed the Shamanic Practitioner Training. The core intention of this training is to learn and practice a wide range of time-honoured shamanic methods of healing and transformation, building confidence in their application and nurturing the role and responsibilities as a shamanic practitioner. … Read more about Shamanic Practitioner Training
Become a Love Rebel.
Become someone who is capable of living in an intuitive heart. We are all interconnected, we all do matter. Live in the both-end of mystical truth, you were born to relate. We are here to relate, that is what our souls signed up for. And to relate in a wholistic way you got to have boundaries. The question is ‘how do you want to relate?!’ One wonderful way to discover this is our Healing Circle … Read more about Become a Love Rebel.
Questions to Ask When Things Get Difficult
You can ask yourself simple questions such as: Do they keep their word to themselves? Do they keep their word to other people? If they don’t keep their word to themselves, what makes you think they will keep it with you? Someone can only give you the intimacy that they have with themselves. It’s a simple truth. If you don’t have compassion for yourself, I cannot expect you to have it … Read more about Questions to Ask When Things Get Difficult
Boundaries are beautiful
Boundaries are beautiful because they set us all free to step into full potential and this is for all involved. You are direct and clean and others know where they are at with you. You will also esteem with people who do the same thing. You can make that happen with this training here. … Read more about Boundaries are beautiful
Four Factors of Boundary Management
1 An intuitive awareness of current boundaries and lack thereof – this is a factor in boundary management 2 A technical understanding of your current boundary system from a Survival Archetype of Adaptation place 3 Looking at survival, fear and shame – how do you relate to survival, fear, and shame? 4 Esteem and empowerment. What kind of esteem/value do you have? What kind of power do … Read more about Four Factors of Boundary Management
What is a Healthy/Unhealthy Boundary System?
A healthy boundary system is a system of interrelated present time patterns activated by your conscious will that guards your wholeism against threats and violations. An unhealthy boundary system is an outmoded historical subconscious survival pattern that often offers little or no defence to threats that are current. And oftentimes for you to use this outmoded unconscious boundary system you have … Read more about What is a Healthy/Unhealthy Boundary System?
What is a Boundary Violation?
It is a breach, an infringement, a transgression. Boundary violations are mostly associated with physical or sexual. However, we can experience emotion and psychological ones when someone tries to manipulate and violate you in that way. Boundary violations can be psycho-spiritual when someone starts toying with your belief systems and gets you to believe in something else (Cult leaders are masters … Read more about What is a Boundary Violation?