1 An intuitive awareness of current boundaries and lack thereof – this is a factor in boundary management 2 A technical understanding of your current boundary system from a Survival Archetype of Adaptation place 3 Looking at survival, fear and shame – how do you relate to survival, fear, and shame? 4 Esteem and empowerment. What kind of esteem/value do you have? What kind of power do … Read more about Four Factors of Boundary Management
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What is a Healthy/Unhealthy Boundary System?
A healthy boundary system is a system of interrelated present time patterns activated by your conscious will that guards your wholeism against threats and violations. An unhealthy boundary system is an outmoded historical subconscious survival pattern that often offers little or no defence to threats that are current. And oftentimes for you to use this outmoded unconscious boundary system you have … Read more about What is a Healthy/Unhealthy Boundary System?
What is a Boundary Violation?
It is a breach, an infringement, a transgression. Boundary violations are mostly associated with physical or sexual. However, we can experience emotion and psychological ones when someone tries to manipulate and violate you in that way. Boundary violations can be psycho-spiritual when someone starts toying with your belief systems and gets you to believe in something else (Cult leaders are masters … Read more about What is a Boundary Violation?
What Is a Boundary?
A boundary is something that indicates limits, sets limits, or certain bounds such as a limiting boundary line. In regards to ‘limits’, a boundary is looked at what we limit to getting into our field, our lives, our space. That is definitely a boundary. We need to reverse it to do a both-end here: it is not just about what we limit getting in, it is also understanding about our own personal limits … Read more about What Is a Boundary?