A healthy boundary system is a system of interrelated present time patterns activated by your conscious will that guards your wholeism against threats and violations. An unhealthy boundary system is an outmoded historical subconscious survival pattern that often offers little or no defence to threats that are current. And oftentimes for you to use this outmoded unconscious boundary system you have to leave your centre, you have to leave yourself. It is engineered that way. So if you ask yourself ‘what really creates your boundaries?’ Perhaps it is a free will fuelled by an activated intuitive heart that would be brilliant. However, most of the time for most of us it is not our free will. We are in compulsion, in old strategies, in triggers, that bring on a certain way to be with our boundaries and the paradox again. More training is available here.